I do have the buttons in the editor window for pics and video. The video works. When I click on the add pic button, a window pops up with the option of link to a pic or select file. Both of these appear to work and the pic shows up in that window, but when I hit save, only a frame with a broken image icon shows up in the article.
Where did you find the settings for you "other side" account? When I go to my account, I have the dashboard, about me, and a couple of other options. I don't see what I would consider settings.