The linkage stopper should rotate freely on the arm -- it's supposed to push-pull the rod, not bend it. if the nut is too loose when the arm can spin freely, a drop of thread-locker on the stopper before you slip the nut on should hold it in place after everything dries. if the thread-locker glues the stopper/nut to the horn, break it free with a twist, then every thing should stay in place and still move freely where it should.