Yep, sometimes it feels like you're dealing with chaos theory and working forever to achieve even modest spontaneous order.
I've found the smaller the camera and the larger the props, the harder it is to not have jello. The larger 'buzzy' vibrations can pretty much be eliminated by balancing.
But even perfectly balanced larger props, especially if they are slow-fly cheapies, are almost impossible to get a tiny 'key-fob' size cam (Mobius) to not have some jello in some region of flight. Whenever a larger, flexible prop changes planes it will induce some flex. Hard throttle changes will make the prop cup, etc.
The smaller the camera, the less rigid the mount must be, almost to the point where the camera is hardly held, in or by, the isolation medium.
My best luck for very small cameras on larger multi's has been bubble wrap loosely wrapping the camera. For the quad below, I tried and tried and finally got a nice jello free image for a Foxtech V3
(one of the lightest cameras available, it makes the Mobius seem like a brick), but it required a rubber mounted wire suspended platform, the camera sat on silicon gel and loose foam, and ultimately sat on a bed of bubble wrap. Plus the battery on the platform helped drop the vibration frequency as well.
So yea, anyone who's tried to use an ultra small camera on a larger multi and get good video has been there.