Starting with simulator is EXCELLENT idea, every crash on simulator is one off from your actual plane.
I don't think that you need to have specifically
FT tutor in the simulator, any high wing trainer should do - probably available in any simulator.
I actually started with RC-AirSim - costs roughly 7 $. Not a great sim but gets you the most important basics (orientatoion and basic stick movements).
Later got the Realflight, looks better etc but lot less bang for buck as it is lot more expensive. I believe that if I wanted to train 3D flying on sim it would serve me great though.
Both sims (along with others) are available in steam.
One problem with both simulators is with connecting your transmitter to them. It was bit of a hassle for me so I just settled using MS gamepad which was not ideal but worked well enough.
There are sims available for phones too but I know nothing of them so I won't comment on those.