You can keep using Spektrum if you wish.
The main reasons why people pick FrSky are the claims that they're cheaper, and that they don't failsafe constantly with the FrSky radios when flying in abandoned buildings or at long range. I'll be honest, those reasons are kinda bunk nowadays.
FrSky transmitters can be cheaper, that is true - but at what cost? OpenTX is a little more difficult to go through setup and has a higher learning curve in configuration over the Spektrum software. It's not intuitive, from what I've seen. I personally don't like it because when I looked at how to configure mixing, I had multiple different ways to accomplish the same thing when doing elevator/flap mixing. I'm of the mindset of KISS - Keep It Simple, Stupid - and I don't want to have to go down several different methods to find out which one is the easiest for me to do what I needed. Does that mean it's bad? No, not at all. It just didn't work FOR ME.
Also, when I first looked at the Taranix X9D vs. the Spektrum DX6, the difference between the two was $50. But I picked up the X9D and started moving the sticks, and the gimbals didn't feel as smooth on it as they did on the Spektrum. When I inquired about it at the hobby shop where I was looking at the transmitters, they said, "Oh, you can swap out the gimbals for better ones - it only costs $50." That was leaning me even more towards the Spektrum, but it was when I started trying to throw switches that I found the Spektrum radio to be more comfortable FOR ME. Ergonomics is a personal thing, and the reach to hit some of the switches felt a lot better in the DX6 than they did in the X9D. That's something that made it easier for me to pick the Spektrum radio.
As for failsafe, well...I've only had one failsafe issue with a quadcopter on DSMX - and it was caused because I was flying a Tinywhoop/Inductrix quadcopter at about 500 ft away from me, out of line-of-sight, and between two metal shipping containers. I not only lost radio signal to my quadcopter, I ALSO lost video signal, which was most likely caused by the metal shipping containers blocking my signal. Does it happen? Yes. Would it have happened with a different protocol, whether it was Spektrum, FrSky, FlySky, etc? Almost definitely.
I think that it might be a convenient...well, I don't know if it's an "excuse", but it's less of a reason, in my mind, to blame on the brand of transmitter and more of a reason to blame on pushing what the limit of radio frequencies in general can broadcast at.
Ultimately, I would tell you to go with what you're comfortable with. Both FrSky and Spektrum are used for FPV flying; it's more of what I liken to as a "Ford vs. Chevy", "Apple vs. Android" argument - each one has their fans, and each one does the same basic functions. Pick the one that best suits you for not just your pocketbook, but for ease of use should you want to program it, support/repair if you should break something or need assistance programming it, or how it feels in your hand, especially if you plan on flying for a while, as you don't want your hands to cramp up!