2.4 control and 2.4 video don't mix. ever . . . so that's one down.
2.4 control and 1.2 video will, but you'll need to add a 2.4Ghz notch filter inline with your VTX antenna feed to cut out the harmonic that would otherwise scream in the CRX's ears. Doable, so long as you respect that detail.
now of the three remaining, which one? how compact do you want to run?
5.3GHz can use the built-in VRX's in the Skyzone gear, but can be somewhat limited in range and obstacles. when you do have signal, the bandwidth makes the video as pretty as you'll get for analog FPV (and digital will always sport an uncomfortable lag, despite the HD options at the high end). it's also the smallest for VTX and antenna gear, so it's not hard to squeeze it on a small airframe.
1.2GHz and 900MHz, as you move down in frequency, propagation losses drop (range for the same power transmitted increases) and your ability to look around and through obstacles increases. The big downside is your gear and antennas get MUCH larger with decreasing frequency, and anything below 2.4 you'll be tethered to a base station (people have tied a 5.8 VTX to a base station so they can repeat the signal to their goggles wirelessly, but that's a fairly advanced setup)
As for which piece of kit to pick up . . . that's really a blend between personal taste and budget.