On the LiPo batteries, one lesson I learned the hard way is, LiPo's are not like NiCad batteries. They should NOT be recharged before storing, and they should not be fully discharged. On all my planes, I have a timer set in the transmitter, tailored to a reasonable tolerance of the flight time I can expect with the battery used in that plane. The timer is set so that I should have enough battery remaining for a little extra linger time, for either waiting out another pilot on the runway, or for making another go-around or two, if my approach isn't what I would like. Additionally, when I get home from the flying field, I always run every battery I took, back across the charger, using the "storage" function. While I don't have data to state it conclusively, this has seemed to prolong the lives of my batteries, and I have not had one go into "self-destruct" mode in the five years I've been flying.
When a battery is either damaged in a crash, or has started to get a bit too puffy, I have a safe system to fully discharge it, and then dispose of it properly.
If no one else has mentioned it, never, ever, puncture a LiPo battery. Doing so tends to cause them to catch fire.