I use Deans, most people say they don't like them but don't seem to be consistent with a reason. I've tried XT60's, and yes, they are very good and firm, but I do like to be able to unplug a battery in less than half an hour without breaking all my nails in the process, and Deans have always been firm, easy to plug in, and easy to unplug, not to mention great for soldering... and are lighter than XT60's.
For smaller things I was pretty much stuck with JST's, but wasn't overly excited about them. I have recently brought a box filler from Hobbyking of mini Deans which are rated for 10A, but they are so much more meatier than the JST's that I calculate they could take 15A easily, and yet are still lighter.
For slopesoarers I stick to Futaba connectors as I usually either use a 1S LiPo, a 2S LiFePO4, or 4/5 NiMH's in series, plugged straight into the receiver.
For smaller things I was pretty much stuck with JST's, but wasn't overly excited about them. I have recently brought a box filler from Hobbyking of mini Deans which are rated for 10A, but they are so much more meatier than the JST's that I calculate they could take 15A easily, and yet are still lighter.
For slopesoarers I stick to Futaba connectors as I usually either use a 1S LiPo, a 2S LiFePO4, or 4/5 NiMH's in series, plugged straight into the receiver.