I consider myself a newbie kinda and I was checking out the website of a local club.
Things that put me off:
-The price
-The sheer amount of rules
Things that made me want to join:
-runway
-lots of new flying buddies
The thing is, why would I pay for something I can do free and walk to in 10 mins? Plus I have two flying pals and that's enough for now. People around here seem to be pretty accepting of us flying. As a matter of fact My friend smacked someone and the victim was "alright" with it. Maybe he was lucky. People do see me on approach and don't move out of the way so I have to go around and with for them to pass which is annoying. People will literally be walking straight into my approach path. its like those mindless pedestrians who cross the street on their phone without looking both ways.
Assuming you fly fixed wing, definitely look at local clubs. Definitely shop around too. Clubs have a culture and some are better than others.
Clubs give you access to decades of experience and they tend to do a good job of keeping spectators off the flight line. The really good ones have trainers and bathrooms and charging stations and BBQs and soda machines.
All of them have insurance which is nice if your plane crashes and the lipo starts a tree on fire.
For the most part, the rules are pretty steep but once you get used to them, safety becomes second nature and they won't be so intimidating. Once everyone is on the same safety path, the environment becomes less risky. No one wants to accidentally hurt someone. Clubs mitigate that pretty well and you learn to anticipate things newbies tend not to think about.
What you are paying for by joining a club is a runway, crowd control, experience, insurance and an education.
I loved our club. To me it was well worth the money and all the work to get it running and maintain it (lots and lots of mowing).
We had lots of people including a bunch of high school kids in the STEM program flying Tiny Trainers all the way up to the 80 year old guy flying a $5,000 DJI Inspire.
@sprzout and FliteTest are right. The camaraderie is just a ton of fun and with the right culture can really inspire.