Hondo76251
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I hate to get too much into the politics of it, but I don't support the way ADD/ADHD is over diagnosed these days. I have a step son and his dad was "diagnosed" with it years ago, before it was the popular diagnosis it is now, and if you knew him you'd know he is wired pretty tight. Sure he struggled in school but he's a very successful adult and he's never been medicated.
We have both agreed that, for 99.9% of all little boys with "ADHD", most problems can be solved with a healthy, physically active lifestyle, and a bit of discipline. Very few little boys actually learn well the way we tech kids now days. Longer days, shorter recesses, standardized testing... you name it.
The world being built is no longer made for most boys to have the best chance of success. That does not mean little boys that can't focus in a class, get fidgety, and cause disruptions have some mental disease to be diagnosed and treated with medication.
Sure, my kiddo isn't the best at setting in class, but the list of things he can do is more impressive than most kids: races motocross, ropes calves, shoots rifle, bow, and pistol, hunts, drives tractors and helps on the ranch, drives himself and his brother to the highway to meet the bus for school, and he's 9... but that's just my take on it...
We have both agreed that, for 99.9% of all little boys with "ADHD", most problems can be solved with a healthy, physically active lifestyle, and a bit of discipline. Very few little boys actually learn well the way we tech kids now days. Longer days, shorter recesses, standardized testing... you name it.
The world being built is no longer made for most boys to have the best chance of success. That does not mean little boys that can't focus in a class, get fidgety, and cause disruptions have some mental disease to be diagnosed and treated with medication.
Sure, my kiddo isn't the best at setting in class, but the list of things he can do is more impressive than most kids: races motocross, ropes calves, shoots rifle, bow, and pistol, hunts, drives tractors and helps on the ranch, drives himself and his brother to the highway to meet the bus for school, and he's 9... but that's just my take on it...