Try any of the trainers first and get some help flying.
The Tudor and tiny trainer would be the best to start with,.
No cubs, no wings, no warbirds, no jets, no tail draggers.
You need something that’s slow and forgiving.
Crashing is just part of it, can’t get around it with a particular plane,
Fear of crashing is normal but getting help will decrease that and having to rebuild planes, but for some of us, we like building more than flying
As far as creating plans, doing it the 3d way isn’t the only way.
Most of the original plans where built by just cutting, fitting , trial and error, That’s how I do it
It’s all about having fun and enjoying this awesome hobby.
Looking forward to hearing about your progress reports.