I was so excited by my Maiden. It went so well that I felt like I'd sort of been there, done that. Ready to move on. It took a lot of thought for me to recognize that all I actually did not was not crash a lot. That's a big difference from being a competent RC Pilot.
I had a big problem keeping the plane close to me. When it was, I could do figure-eights. But then I flew out on slow curves, just trying to bring it back, and then things got crazy. It was awesome flying, but it was nearly uncontrolled flying. When the plane was off in the distance, and I was doing all those crazy loops, rolls and other acrobatics, all I was trying to do was keep it airborne and bring it back. My sim time allowed me to do that, but that's not where I want to be.
I want be able to make controlled flights. Make the plane go where I want it to, when I want it to and do what I want it to. I've realized I am not there, yet.
My brother? I am in full agreement with you. We simply need more practice.