first, check you set the prop with numbers on it, forward. Then check if your motor rotate CCW, then it shouldnt get loose if your used the "round plastic washer to fit inside your prop and on your motoraxle.
I think I see what may be part of the issue. Look at the base of the shaft at the bell. That is not wide enough to cover the hub and looks to be perfect for the prop spacer to rest on. If the grip is on the spacer and not the actual prop that leaves only the nut to hold the prop. Try using a thin washer behind the prop so that pressure gets transferred to the prop hub better.
Cranking on the nut too hard will either strip threads. Move the shaft inside the bell as it is only press fit. Or in the case of certain props stress the prop hub leaving you vulnerable to shattering.
Thanks for the help, I was getting a lot of resistance from the front nut, didn't realize all I had to do was give it a little bit more push from the pliers